Most
men know nothing about picking out lingerie, which is understandable because it
can be confusing. What type of lingerie
to buy, what size, what color - how is a man to know? Here is a little guide to help you when
choosing lingerie for that special someone.
Most men know nothing about picking out lingerie, which is
understandable because it can be confusing.
What type of lingerie to buy, what size, what color - how is a man to
know? Here is a little guide to help you
when choosing lingerie for that special someone.
There are a few things to consider before you go out. What does she like? Remember that you will not be wearing this -
she will and you should go out with the intent on getting something she will
like. If she is not into lacey, tiny,
see-through teddies, chances are if you buy that, she will not be in much of a
mood to wear it and you may never see it.
So keep what she likes in mind.
If you do not know, check out her nightgown/lingerie drawer
before you leave. Check for material
type (cotton, silk, etc.), colors, and most importantly, size. She may be flattered if she wears a large and
you get her a small, but if she wears a small and you buy her a large, you may
find yourself in trouble. Avoid anything
that says "control" on the label. Those items are used to firm and flatten
tummys and rears and she would probably not appreciate receiving them as a
gift.
Another thing to remember is if the store offers to wrap the
lingerie let them. Dainty lingerie will
look better in their wrapping than if you wrap it in the paper left over from
your cousin's birthday. Presentation is
part of the package with lingerie. Also,
if you are uncomfortable in the store, check out online stores that sell
lingerie. You can always start at
Victoria's Secret, but most major department stores like Macys and Nordstroms
also sell lingerie. Final note -
remember to keep your receipt just in case it is the wrong style, size, or
color.
Now, what type of lingerie is available? Just about anything you can think of! Ask yourself what the occasion is. Is this to
let her know you love her? If so,
something crotchless or see-through probably will not send that message. But, if it is for Valentine's Day or your
anniversary, something a little more risqué might be appreciated. Bras alone have many different styles
including push up, plunge, gel filled, padded, under wire, seamless, backless,
strapless, open cup, and unpadded.
If you are purchasing a bra and panty set, always check out
what she has in her drawer beforehand and definitely make note of the size - of
both the bra and panties. Most places
sell at least one pair of panties that match each bra, but some will sell
several so you can mix and match. It
will help to know what type of panties she likes to wear too - thongs, briefs,
or high cut bikini.
When it comes to sleepwear, it can be just as
confusing. One type of sleepwear is
babydoll pajamas. They usually have very
thin straps, a plunging V neckline, and are very short with matching
panties. You will find most of these
made out of silk or satin, materials that always make a woman feel good about
herself. But, if she feels her breasts
are too big or too small, or thinks her stomach is too big, you might want to
avoid babydoll pajamas.
There are slips and chemises. Similar to the babydoll
pajamas, these are a little longer and a little better at concealing problem
areas such as breasts, butt or stomach.
They too are usually made of silk or satin.
Gowns are full-length versions of the babydoll. Many are see-through or lacey and can help
put your woman in the mood. Babydolls,
slips, chemises, and gowns may also come with a robe.
A pajama set might not sound too sexy, but if it is silky,
and buttons up the front, it can make your woman feel very sexy, especially if
she is a plus size (size 18 or larger).
Boxer sets have become very popular lately. The tops are tight, with thin straps and
usually a V neckline, although there are boxer sets with normal t-shirt tops.
If you are really looking for lingerie to spice up your love
life, take a look at Frederick's of Hollywood (available online). They have been selling sexy lingerie for over
50 years. They have a wide variety of
garter belts, bustiers, corsets, teddies (similar to the babydoll, but one
piece), crotchless panties, and fishnet stockings - items that may not be
available at many stores that sell lingerie.
What type of lingerie you should get your love depends a lot
on her self-esteem. Many big woman love
sexy little teddies, but some will shy away from them, for fear of exposing too
much of themselves. Most stores sell
lingerie in plus sizes, which are a little less revealing. If she is really athletic, a boxer set might
be something she would like. Thin women
will look good in anything, but especially teddies, corsets, and babydolls.
When shopping for lingerie, try to keep in mind what she
likes. If you purchase something similar
to the lingerie she already has and in colors you know she likes, it will
probably make her happy. But, keep the
receipt just in case!
